Hello Danny, I Guess Your family sounds little like mine..Ive always been little sensitive..But I want to grow thicker skin.. I want To get out of my Comfort zone..I always seem to be busy and spending time with my friends..But I Seemed I lost a few along the way..Im so Happy your sister is doing fine..Im happy you are doing well. I feel it is probably in a Good space to live where you live. When You want to see your family you can go and visit them..When My Daughter passed I feel the same the same waz. My children father shut  down it really changed him a lot..I just went out with all three of my Beautiful Grand children..We always have such a Great time together..I just Bought My Granddaughters Senior Pictures. The other Twin is a Boy but he did his schooling online and graduating this February! So He didn't get school Pictures. So Im going to see if he can dress up in a White shirt and Black Blazer for his Pictures..Get Different Sizes of pictures And get them made up for the other Twin Senior Pictures. for my Grandson also..Hope you have a Wonderful Night..Take Care..Be safe Blessings! xx.

Good morning, Danny. My daughter-in-law had a Packer- Bengal party yesterday. Everyone brought a dish or 2 and everything was great and the Packers won. Brewers won and playing the Dodgers , woo hoo. One of my granddaughters made a round loaf of bread and it was very good. I have no idea what happened to bakery bread, but it is still a good thing in Wisconsin. Just like Fish Frys and hot ham and free rolls in Wisconsin. In California I asked my niece where there was a good restaurant for a fish fry and she did not know. So, I looked online and it said, see Milwaukee. What a surprise. It doesn't sound good for your sister. Sorry... Hope the storm misses you. Blessings.

Hello Danny, Yes I have Always went the extra Mile for my Family. Mz family even though I love them very much. They love To talk about Others. I don't like to be in the cross hairs..of mz Family. The never hardly at all Backed me up on anything. I have kept their secrets that were confided in me. But if I ever Confide in them.They tell others. All my family lives so close..I always Had a lot of Friends in my life so They have been more like Family..Your Blessed that your family didn't go behind your back. I have always kept a lot to myself so I save the peace in my Family..My Older son feels their Drama Queens. I just pray for them. And love them anyways! but mz family and myself Knows what went on. The just stay Away..I do Pray and wish them well of Coarse...I have 5 Beautiful Grandchildren that mz family are very close. Mz Daughter in Laws Family always treat me like Family. They have a Verz Big Family.. They're so Very Sweet. We always have a Great time with all of them! Hope you Are doing well and your sister.. You have a Great Day!Take Care Be Safe Hugs! xx

Evening Danny. We went out to breakfast with my son and daughter-in-law. Yesterday my daughter-in-law took us to 2 bakeries in the city. One was called Paris Baguette, and they had wonderful things to eat. Stores here don't have good bread and the bakeries just sell 1/2 loaves of bread and nothing special. Not like Milwaukee. Bakeries here mainly sell sweet rolls, cakes, and cookies. We love homemade bread and now 2 of my granddaughters are making bread. Weather is getting chilly out. Will be in the 70's for the next week. I am not ready for the cold yet. Lol. Keep standing your ground with your sister. Your house. your rules. Blessings.

Hello Danny, Good Evening to you..It is good to have time to yourself with other People..You were talking about your sister. I have the children's father who doesn't take care of himself.Onlz when he goes to doctor appointment he cleans himself. He's a real nice guy. When I was Married to him he always took showers I got mz children started at a Young age. So now their adults the love to shower daily. And so do I..I never like to compare myself with my sister at all.She loves to compete with me.. That's ok for teenagers, but not Senior Citizens! Its so silly.. I have always had a lot of friends in my Life.. Too do My children also.I have a a couple of people in my life.. But I don't hang out with them anymore. I wish the best for them.And I pray for them..Life is to short tube with those kind of people. I love to be around Kind caring People..I have always enjoyed our conversations because you are so kind too..Zou have a Great Night..Take Care..Be safe..Blessings! xx

Good morning, Danny. Sorry you don't have a way to convince your sister to change her ways. If you stopped buying her smokes and said, let's make a deal. A pack of smokes for a shower. You are in charge of her. Just a thought. I used chocolate candy for my mom to make her eat food. A struggle to say the least. Today we are going to a donut place my daughter-in-law wants us to see. Blessings.

Good morning, Danny. I am glad you are still able to get out and enjoy time with friends. Maybe you could get someone from some place to come in and bathe your sister. Does she have medical insurance? There is no good reason for her to be stinky. If she can sit and smoke you could put a chair in your shower and turn the water on and soap her down with her clothes on. Tell her to learn how to change her clothes or she can go back home to Virginia. She is your sister, get stern with her or you may regret having her stay with you. Just saying... Blessings.

Hello Dan, Thanks So much for Understanding.Like you said you to low dose medication also. I think probably a lot of people going through dramatic situations Usually do take something..It is Harding Im sure that your wife's passing was very hard on you..I know it was my child who passed, but it still hurts no matter what..When you lose someone you love so much.Yes my family is so different than I am.My sister Likes To keep her house clean and decorate like I do.. I feel she has such a Compative Spirit. Always competing who has the Best house.. I don't want to ever do that..Im almost 75 years of age. You do that when you are a teenager not a Señior Citizen! It is so Crazy! I never visit her and she never visits me..It is so Very Sad! That is one of the Reasons im not close to her..I always like to talk to you anytime. I enjoy it..I was Wondering do you think you would have your sister in a Good Nursing home if it gets to hard for you.I know with Family you always want to help out. But as we all get older in age, sometime it can be hard also for caregiving.Lol.. Hope you have a Wonderful Evening..Take Care Be Safe..Hugs! xx

Good morning, Danny. OMG your sister must smell bad. So sorry, you are a strong person to help your sister. My sister-in-law who I just visit is strong like you also. She helps everyone who needs it in the family. With their health, doc appointments, money problems, or take them on a trip, give them help finding a home. She is like a fairy godmother. It is one reason why I wanted to help her. She has one daughter who is kind as she is and lives close by so we helped her so she c0uld get her bearings on what to do each day. She was more help than I was but I was there for her. Hope your days get better. Blessings.

Hello Danny, I know how it is I have had in my life some sad times but the don't last long. Until I had the passing of my Daughter Danielle.Its been 9 years I finally had to go on medication a lower dose for depression.Its the most pain I ever went through in my life! I have never had to get on medication for anything! I just always took my Daily vitamins and Calicum with Vitamin D that's all. This is the 1st time I ever took anything like this..So I can relate little..I force my self to get out on doctors visits and errands and so forth. It is still litter hard.My family and I aren't so  close as I use to be with Them. They like to party and drink and so forth. I don't Drink or do drugs or smoke cigarettes! Im probably kind of boring to them..But I love them very much. I have tried to go out of my way for them.And always try to keep peace in the Family..Im suppose to get together with mz Grandchildren all 3 of them. Next Monday! But im getting a Soft water System in my Condo Soon.hopefullz it comes in after that. It's the Twin Grandchildren's Birthday And my younger son Donnies Birthday also! So I wanted to take them out to a nice restaurant and bring their gifts and also a Cake for all three of them.. Hope you are doing well.I have another appointment on Monday October 13th.. You take care..Stay Safe Hugs! xx