Siobhan and Seabean36 minutes, 24 seconds ago
RULES OF A NARCISSIST
Do as I say, not as I do.
My rules are not for me—they’re for you.
I hold you accountable while I remain untouchable.
You must be perfect, obedient, and available—but I owe you nothing.
I’m never wrong.
Even when I contradict myself, I’ll twist the truth until it favors me.
Your facts are lies. Your feelings are manipulations.
If I hurt you, you made me do it.
If you react, you’re too sensitive, too dramatic, too much.
It’s my way or the highway.
Compromise is weakness, and I don't bend—you do.
If you resist, I’ll punish you with silence, rage, or withdrawal.
You’ll learn that peace only comes when you surrender.
The world revolves around me.
Your time, your energy, your identity—they all belong to me now.
Your purpose is to validate me, adore me, and meet my needs.
If you forget that, I’ll remind you—with criticism, comparison, or cruelty.
I don’t like to be number two.
If someone else shines brighter than me, I’ll dim their light—or yours.
If I’m not the center of attention, I’ll create chaos until I am.
Do as I say, not as I do.
My rules are not for me—they’re for you.
I hold you accountable while I remain untouchable.
You must be perfect, obedient, and available—but I owe you nothing.
I’m never wrong.
Even when I contradict myself, I’ll twist the truth until it favors me.
Your facts are lies. Your feelings are manipulations.
If I hurt you, you made me do it.
If you react, you’re too sensitive, too dramatic, too much.
It’s my way or the highway.
Compromise is weakness, and I don't bend—you do.
If you resist, I’ll punish you with silence, rage, or withdrawal.
You’ll learn that peace only comes when you surrender.
The world revolves around me.
Your time, your energy, your identity—they all belong to me now.
Your purpose is to validate me, adore me, and meet my needs.
If you forget that, I’ll remind you—with criticism, comparison, or cruelty.
I don’t like to be number two.
If someone else shines brighter than me, I’ll dim their light—or yours.
If I’m not the center of attention, I’ll create chaos until I am.















































